Why do women get agitated if they are addressed to as a Prostitute or a whore or some such similar name?
In an era where the more shameless, sassy and brazen a female is, the more famous, rich and sought after she is! The more negligibly dressed & scandalous she is – greater is her fanfare! If some such Item Female is about to visit any state or region….several sex-starved, depraved and frustrated citizens will agree to even die because of stampede in the large crowd that assembles to welcome her arrival!
Being Shameless, Sassy & brazen are all qualities of a sex-worker (for professional reasons of course – they have to literally fight for a single client to earn money) or a female with sex-maniac instincts (those who eff around for fun and think it to be an expression of freedom!)
But when such females are called by these names…they create hell of a ruckus! Why on earth?
We understand the idioms that say – Don’t call a blind man blind or a limper a limp – because it might hurt their sentiments – they are physically handicapped because of some accident or genetic disorder – understood – but a female who willingly indulges in sex out of wedlock – knowing very well that it is looked down upon by the society….but she really does not care – so why be agitated?
Accept the fact that you do belong to the category of a sex-worker….if you are not a wife and yet having physical relationship with someone who is not your husband, you will be called cheap, available and game! This is what 80% of Indian citizens have grown up knowing…and this is the truth also! Lovers or Live-ins also do not escape the wrath of the society!
By the way, same applies to males as well – if he hops, skips and jumps around with available game girls – he is called a whore monger or a womanizer…and both the terms are derogatory for males – it tarnishes the character and directly affects his personality…as it has been said by our learned ancestors – If Character is gone, everything is gone!